YOUNG LOVE

YOU KNOW, I NEVER, IN A MILLION YEARS THOUGHT I WOULD GET MARRIED 3 WEEKS AND 2 DAYS BEFOR I TURNED 21. I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN A INDEPENDT PERSON, AND I HAVE BIG DREAM FOR MY CAREER AND MYSELF. I WANTED TO BE ABLE TO MOVE OUT ON MY OWN BEFORE I EVEN GOT IN A SEROUS RELATIONSHIP....I DIDN'T EVEN WANT ROOM MATES.....I WANTED TO LIVE COMPLETELY ALONE......WHICH MENT I HAD TO HAVE A HUGE CLIENTELE. I WANTED TO DO THAT JUST SO I KNEW THAT I WOULD BE STABLE ON MY OWN. BUT I ALWAYS HAD TO REMEMBER THAT EVERYTHING HAPPNES IN GOD'S TIME...NOT MINE. WHEN PEOPLE FOUND OUT I WAS GOING TO GET MARRIED.....PEOPLE ASKED ME, "LINDSEY, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING????? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG. MARRAGE ISN'T EASY, IT'S A BIG RESPONSABILITY. " I KNEW THAT BEFORE I EVEN CONSIDERED GETTING MARRIED. I REALIZED ON MY OWN I COULDN'T CALL ON MOMMY AND DADDY TO HELP ME ANYMORE. I KNEW THAT I WASN'T JUST ABOUT ME ANYMORE, I COULDN'T GO BLOW MONEY ON GETTING MY NAILS DONE OR GO ON A SHOPPING SPREE....I REALIZED, ON MY OWN, THAT I WOULD HAVE TO HELP PAY THE BILLS, AND I COULD NOT LIVE ABOVE MY MEANS, (THAT IS WHY I DON'T OWN A CREDIT CARD). SHAWN AND I DEFENATLLY TOOK OUR TIME.....WE DATED FOR A LITTLE OVER A YEAR, THEN GOT ENGAGED, THEN WAITED A LITTLE OVER A YEAR TO GET MARRIED....AND WE DIDN'T LIVE TOGETHER UNTIL WE GOT MARRIED.....THAT SUPRISED A LOT OF PEOPLE. I JUST WANTED EVERYONE, WHO DOUBTED US, AND TRIED TO TALK ME OUT OF MARRAGE, TO KNOW THAT WE ARE DOING FANTASTIC!!!!! HOW MANY 21 YEAR OLDS BUY A HOUSE WITH THEIR HUSBAND??????? NOT A LOT. WE'VE EVEN BEEN THROUGH SOMETHING BAD THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T GO THROUGH, (HIS HUGE ACCIDENT, IF YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT PLEASE CONTACT ME AND I'LL LET YOU KNOW). IF I DIDN'T THINK I COULD HANDLE IT I WOULDN'T HAVE DONE IT. I COULDN'T ASK FOR A BETTER HUSBAND UNLESS IT WAS......WELL, YOU KNOW.....HAHA!!!!!!!